Love without boundary, that’s what I call intuition in marriage. Wholesale acceptance and offering of love. Facing challenges yet forging ahead with determination and boldness.
The 21st century couple has got to understand that marriage has gone beyond what our fathers and mothers taught us. These days we have to learn as on the job. Discovering and utilizing a new method which has never been taught us. This means going beyond your natural faculties and depending on an intelligence that is beyond you. This intelligence does not come from reading books, though the reading of books will help to a certain extent in shaping your way of thinking and reasoning. The kind of intelligence I am talking about is developed in your spirit and it then flows through your soul (your thinking faculty) and then displayed in your speech, conduct and understanding. There is a verse of the bible I love so much that captures this insight so much, its Isaiah 41:3-5. I remember vividly when I was writing my final year exams in the university and most of the questions in a particular paper I took where not known to me. I did not study the areas the questions came out from. I refused to become afraid or discouraged but instead reached inside of me and called on a power and intelligence beyond me which spoke to my intellect there and then and gave it instructions on what to write. I can tell you that when the result came out, I did better than those who knew what they were writing. Intuition in marriage is similar to this experience. Things may happen in your marriage that you have never been taught or even read in a book. This is when you tap into the power that comes from intuition and depend on the Inestimable resource that is your spirit. Events are spiraling and leaping in geometric projections that modern marriages are not fully equipped to handle. Things are happening that our parents would never have imagined talk less of them happening. So many couples have been caught unawares and as such cracks have developed in their marriages and gaping holes have been left where the enemy hit them. What will families do now? I recommend to families to reach back inside their spirit and hear what God is saying to them in the now.
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